Tango Uncorked #10 - Norma Silver - "I think my first words were thank you."

Norma Silver drove her Silver Toyota into the city last week to sit down and chat about her very interesting life and all the things she has done before finding tango.
Born in Brighton Beach, she traveled the world at a time when the patriarchy was at a very strong place and most women were expected to stay put and to their "duties." Norma never allowed herself to be boxed in and she went off to teach in the Azores and Japan just after World War two. She returned and continued her career in Paramus, NJ. After retiring she started dancing and continued learning and growing as a person.
Let's listen to her story.

 

• (07:22) Norma Silver began dancing tango in her late 70s, inspired by a trip to Buenos Aires and the film 'Scent of a Woman,' proving that it is never too late to start something new and find joy in life.
• (10:00) Norma credits her tango teachers, including Caroline, Diego, Vladimir Estren, and Pablo, for their encouragement and belief in her ability, which motivated her to continue dancing.
• (13:30) Tango has provided Norma with significant physical and emotional benefits, including improved health and a sense of connection, which she values deeply in her retirement.
• (18:05) Norma reflects on her adventurous teaching career overseas in the 1950s, including time in Tokyo, the Azores, and England, where she embraced new cultures and experiences.
• (36:21) Norma discusses the importance of emotional happiness and a balanced approach to life, advocating for joy and self-compassion over strict adherence to health regimens.
• (42:30) Tango is described as a meditative practice that fosters presence and mindfulness, helping dancers escape overthinking and focus on the moment.
• (47:47) The conversation explores the evolving gender roles in tango, with increasing acceptance of women taking on leading roles, which challenges traditional norms and broadens perspectives on leadership.
• (59:54) Norma shares her sensitivity to negative energy and her efforts to surround herself with positivity, including avoiding negative news and seeking uplifting experiences in nature.
• (01:00:59) The episode highlights the unique human connection fostered by tango, which contrasts with the isolation often experienced in a technology-driven world.
• (01:03:10) Norma reflects on her 42-year teaching career and her love for ballroom dancing, which began at age 21, emphasizing the lifelong joy she has found in dance.
• (01:10:31) The conversation concludes with reflections on the importance of gratitude, resilience, and staying active to fully experience life, as shared by both Norma and the host.